Sunday, November 28, 2010
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I kept as still as I could. Nothing happened. I did not expect anything to happen. I was something that lay under the sun and felt it, like the pumpkins, and I did not want to be anything more. I was entirely happy. Perhaps we feel like that when we die and become a part of something entire, whether it is sun and air, or goodness and knowledge. At any rate, that is happiness; to be dissolved into something complete and great. When it comes to one, it comes as naturally as sleep.
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Goodness is not something that exists in the Universe and that’s why, when it happens, when someone comes up to you and they love you and care for you, you can say, ‘Fuck! That’s a big deal.’ If it was the natural order to love and care, as the hippies would have you believe, then what would there be to celebrate?
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Give me, for my life,
all lives,
give me all the pain
of everyone,
I’m going to turn it into hope.
Give me
all the joys,
even the most secret,
because otherwise
how will these things be known?
I have to tell them,
give me
the labors
of everyday,
for that’s what I sing
all lives,
give me all the pain
of everyone,
I’m going to turn it into hope.
Give me
all the joys,
even the most secret,
because otherwise
how will these things be known?
I have to tell them,
give me
the labors
of everyday,
for that’s what I sing
A goodbye...
I loved her so much, every day I woke up dreaming about her, every time I think what if she was here what would she say, how'd she react and all that stuff. I didn't really care what everyone else thought about me as long as she was happy. She was everything in this world to me. The days were going fast and good, I could remember her voice from every word she said and imagine the rest from how she would say. I looked up to her through every aspect of my insignificant life. Perhaps she could've grown irritant to my such behaviour. If I really cared, I felt way too possesive, if I let her do what she wished, I wasn't responsible, if I tried to talk to her everyday, I was getting a bit too sticky, if I managed to get along without hearing her voice, I was ignoring her, if I did something unusual, I was getting the wrong attention, if I acted normal, I was really boring, if I gave her gifts, it was show off, if I didn't spend much, I was more attracted towards money. and on goes the list of my billions of unsolved mysteries of our love, I was so focused on presenting myself that I went a bit off the track to show what I really was I missed the chance to tell how I really felt, just in the riff-raff of these tons of emotions.
I never had my first date, all I had was a bitter breakup... Nothing goes wrong right from the beginning, at first it felt like a good healthy relationship, no fears, no tears but then the condemned world began to tear us apart in various means possible. But still, there was this one confirmation, actually a feeling of self assurance that lured me back into her sweet dreams and the stinging pain of desperation. A feeling of belief that whatever may be the circumstances she loves me... atleast for now that's what kept me going on in this season of misery. Suddenly the friends felt farther away, the sounds of parents felt like nagging of some inglorious fool. The motivational lectures seemed to be asking for way too much, everything felt so seperated, so different in an unaccountable way. Only her voice felt like the sweet music of angels, her indications seemed to be the supereme command of the highest god, her presence like the meaning of life... I wasn't obsessed with her, just posessed by her and I asked for nothing more as long as I was with her.
Our first plan was to go out on a movie on a free sunday, with her friend. But was put down due to lack of permissions from her parents, I was told that she went out with her brothers that day. I didn't feel betrayed because she had her own genuine reason for not being with me, I just lurked around in my house all day to get rid of her memories and when I felt no way of getting rid of my misery I decided to sleep, and there she was back again in my dreams haunting me with the pain but atleast I was with her even if in my dreams.
My second hangout with her was perfectly portrayed with her at a disco club with many of both of our friends who would be there, it was also another way round to introduce ourselves to each other's circle. The day was going awesome with the thought of being with her. Later at the night everything was perfect. The only wait was for me to go home and change clothes and come back. As I reached home I found my dad's bike broken. I asked him to go alone but he refused simply I revolted but was put dwon harshly later. I was disgusted and told various people that I was not coming in a not so serious tone simply stating that my dad was willing to go tommorrow instead of today. I later slept off crying with the guilt of being born only to hurt her... She forgave me the next day relating to me that she was sad last night, I just wanted to hug her and cry for being such a fool to hurt her, but never could tell her how much sorry I felt. Just said 'm sorry' which I knew was insufficient I perhaps know now that the time she forgave me was also the moment she gave up on me, I regret it still but just can't tell her anything about how I feel because I never did get a chance...
The next day she went out of town with her family and I got overwhelmed by the thought of not talking her and in the mist of my foolishness to try on something new, I drank beer for the first time with my friend though it was not a very sophisticated kind of experience as drunk people usually conquer to but still it was worth being scolded at. But she never scolded me just got more farther away from me than before and in a fog of unknowingness I smoked a couple of cigarettes for the next two days, later I learned from her friend that it was not very good what I'd done and I should be disgusted at what I'd done or atleast she was...
After that it was only on the phone I talked to her on the day she was going out on a trip, I can still recall her voice in my ears, through the thousand disturbances caused in a moving train, I could still make out her voice saying 'Atul... listen carefully... I know this may hurt you a bit... but... I seriously want to breakup with you... I hope you can understand the reasons...' I possibly knew every possible cause due to which she could have thought of this but couldn't make out the exact reason 'speak something... Atul... say something... are you there...' her voice commanded me to speak again but I was nearly hyperventilating, just taking deep breaths to keep me from falling, my mind was becoming heavier each moment my heart pained even more now, I was perhaps overreacting or showing off till now but as the tears rolled down my cheeks, I became aware that I was not faking it, I was trying very hard to stop nearly dying to forget what I'd just heard, but I couldn't I just couldn't all I could manage was to give a 'hmm...' to her request. We both remained silent for a long pause, the sound of train was now growing up in my head, mearly causing a migrane, the silence was giving me in to nausea but all I could manage to do was cry and sit still, shortly after, the line was cut off from her side and I kept sitting there, moaning silently over my loss...
Everything felt so useless, so imaginary, my heart felt so swollen up all the time since I knew I was not going to see her for a while now and that while seemed to expand to a lifetime. I woke up everyday in tears, slept in tears and the rest was I couldn't even care to notice. Everyday, I looked at the thermocol cutter in front of me wishing that it's sharp blade would just come out instinctively and slice through my wrists but I couldn't gather up enough courage to do it myself when the thought of my parents and the many other people who cared for me, hoped me to never let them down came to my mind.
I saw her after nearly a week in front of me... and a load of emotions rushed to my eyes to flow out but I looked down upon the ground in time to let the stupid salty drops kiss the ground without any of that crying stuff. I just wanted to hug her, hold her close to my chest, just wished that I could remain in her arms forever, just wished to die in her lap if that was my last wish but I knew that it would not come true... The teacher is teaching me in the class but I am at a sole corner of the classroom, staring at the sharp blade just wishing to die. I can't bear the pain of being away from her anymore nor I am strong enough to bear the punishment of my crime everytime I see her, but I can't die right now if that would mean hurting her again.
It wasn't on the climate charts today to rain, but here I was dripping with pain moaning in the rain so that my tears were hidden. Soaked with the guilt and her love, I slowly walked over the pools of my mistakes splashing the painful memories of good times every time I stepped on them. I could see her coming towards me in the rain, my foggy eyes and the blurred vision didn't acknowledge her presence but I knew that it was her who was holding me so tightly something I had wished for so long... I slowly fell down on the ground still in her arms and my senses slowed down to nearly negligible. She was looking at my face with horrified eyes which I couldn't see but feel. As I lay motionless in her lap, I slowly lifted my hands to her face and heard my own broken voice "god... why do I love you so much?" the flaps of my shirt sticking to my arms gave away at the moment and I could feel the cold rainrops mixing with the warm blood oozing out of my wrists. I could hear her screams and all her moans as I lay there in her lap I could feel water pouring onto my face and I knew it was her tears not the rain which was bidding me the goodbyes. I slowly pulled her face close to mine and I could hear her desperate sobs and pleadings just then I could smell her sweet breath entering my mouth to take off my life with ease I would perhaps be one of the few lucky persons on the Earth to die smiling and happily... Everything faded away, I could feel my heart slowly beating for her... her, she was the only thing I was remembering right now and I was happy that the last thing I may remember is so incredibly marvellous...
WRITTEN BY: Atul Shrotriya.
I never had my first date, all I had was a bitter breakup... Nothing goes wrong right from the beginning, at first it felt like a good healthy relationship, no fears, no tears but then the condemned world began to tear us apart in various means possible. But still, there was this one confirmation, actually a feeling of self assurance that lured me back into her sweet dreams and the stinging pain of desperation. A feeling of belief that whatever may be the circumstances she loves me... atleast for now that's what kept me going on in this season of misery. Suddenly the friends felt farther away, the sounds of parents felt like nagging of some inglorious fool. The motivational lectures seemed to be asking for way too much, everything felt so seperated, so different in an unaccountable way. Only her voice felt like the sweet music of angels, her indications seemed to be the supereme command of the highest god, her presence like the meaning of life... I wasn't obsessed with her, just posessed by her and I asked for nothing more as long as I was with her.
Our first plan was to go out on a movie on a free sunday, with her friend. But was put down due to lack of permissions from her parents, I was told that she went out with her brothers that day. I didn't feel betrayed because she had her own genuine reason for not being with me, I just lurked around in my house all day to get rid of her memories and when I felt no way of getting rid of my misery I decided to sleep, and there she was back again in my dreams haunting me with the pain but atleast I was with her even if in my dreams.
My second hangout with her was perfectly portrayed with her at a disco club with many of both of our friends who would be there, it was also another way round to introduce ourselves to each other's circle. The day was going awesome with the thought of being with her. Later at the night everything was perfect. The only wait was for me to go home and change clothes and come back. As I reached home I found my dad's bike broken. I asked him to go alone but he refused simply I revolted but was put dwon harshly later. I was disgusted and told various people that I was not coming in a not so serious tone simply stating that my dad was willing to go tommorrow instead of today. I later slept off crying with the guilt of being born only to hurt her... She forgave me the next day relating to me that she was sad last night, I just wanted to hug her and cry for being such a fool to hurt her, but never could tell her how much sorry I felt. Just said 'm sorry' which I knew was insufficient I perhaps know now that the time she forgave me was also the moment she gave up on me, I regret it still but just can't tell her anything about how I feel because I never did get a chance...
The next day she went out of town with her family and I got overwhelmed by the thought of not talking her and in the mist of my foolishness to try on something new, I drank beer for the first time with my friend though it was not a very sophisticated kind of experience as drunk people usually conquer to but still it was worth being scolded at. But she never scolded me just got more farther away from me than before and in a fog of unknowingness I smoked a couple of cigarettes for the next two days, later I learned from her friend that it was not very good what I'd done and I should be disgusted at what I'd done or atleast she was...
After that it was only on the phone I talked to her on the day she was going out on a trip, I can still recall her voice in my ears, through the thousand disturbances caused in a moving train, I could still make out her voice saying 'Atul... listen carefully... I know this may hurt you a bit... but... I seriously want to breakup with you... I hope you can understand the reasons...' I possibly knew every possible cause due to which she could have thought of this but couldn't make out the exact reason 'speak something... Atul... say something... are you there...' her voice commanded me to speak again but I was nearly hyperventilating, just taking deep breaths to keep me from falling, my mind was becoming heavier each moment my heart pained even more now, I was perhaps overreacting or showing off till now but as the tears rolled down my cheeks, I became aware that I was not faking it, I was trying very hard to stop nearly dying to forget what I'd just heard, but I couldn't I just couldn't all I could manage was to give a 'hmm...' to her request. We both remained silent for a long pause, the sound of train was now growing up in my head, mearly causing a migrane, the silence was giving me in to nausea but all I could manage to do was cry and sit still, shortly after, the line was cut off from her side and I kept sitting there, moaning silently over my loss...
Everything felt so useless, so imaginary, my heart felt so swollen up all the time since I knew I was not going to see her for a while now and that while seemed to expand to a lifetime. I woke up everyday in tears, slept in tears and the rest was I couldn't even care to notice. Everyday, I looked at the thermocol cutter in front of me wishing that it's sharp blade would just come out instinctively and slice through my wrists but I couldn't gather up enough courage to do it myself when the thought of my parents and the many other people who cared for me, hoped me to never let them down came to my mind.
I saw her after nearly a week in front of me... and a load of emotions rushed to my eyes to flow out but I looked down upon the ground in time to let the stupid salty drops kiss the ground without any of that crying stuff. I just wanted to hug her, hold her close to my chest, just wished that I could remain in her arms forever, just wished to die in her lap if that was my last wish but I knew that it would not come true... The teacher is teaching me in the class but I am at a sole corner of the classroom, staring at the sharp blade just wishing to die. I can't bear the pain of being away from her anymore nor I am strong enough to bear the punishment of my crime everytime I see her, but I can't die right now if that would mean hurting her again.
It wasn't on the climate charts today to rain, but here I was dripping with pain moaning in the rain so that my tears were hidden. Soaked with the guilt and her love, I slowly walked over the pools of my mistakes splashing the painful memories of good times every time I stepped on them. I could see her coming towards me in the rain, my foggy eyes and the blurred vision didn't acknowledge her presence but I knew that it was her who was holding me so tightly something I had wished for so long... I slowly fell down on the ground still in her arms and my senses slowed down to nearly negligible. She was looking at my face with horrified eyes which I couldn't see but feel. As I lay motionless in her lap, I slowly lifted my hands to her face and heard my own broken voice "god... why do I love you so much?" the flaps of my shirt sticking to my arms gave away at the moment and I could feel the cold rainrops mixing with the warm blood oozing out of my wrists. I could hear her screams and all her moans as I lay there in her lap I could feel water pouring onto my face and I knew it was her tears not the rain which was bidding me the goodbyes. I slowly pulled her face close to mine and I could hear her desperate sobs and pleadings just then I could smell her sweet breath entering my mouth to take off my life with ease I would perhaps be one of the few lucky persons on the Earth to die smiling and happily... Everything faded away, I could feel my heart slowly beating for her... her, she was the only thing I was remembering right now and I was happy that the last thing I may remember is so incredibly marvellous...
WRITTEN BY: Atul Shrotriya.
Friday, November 26, 2010
【传说没有安全感的孩子会…】
1.会爱音乐，非常非常爱
2.怕黑，却习惯晚睡
3.隐藏真正的心事
4.喜欢有口袋的衣服，否则会不知道手放在哪里
5.习惯抱臂习惯冷战
6.会突然不知所措
7.喜欢窗户，喜欢角落，喜欢蜷缩
8.喜欢写字和阅读
9.莫名的孤单，无法抗拒的恐惧感
10.不爱说话或很爱说话
11.心事放在心里最温柔的地方，有一个自己的世界
12.自信的面对他人，因为怕别人看见自己的脆弱
13.神经非常敏感，总是多愁善感
14.心地善良，乐于帮助他人，同情弱小
15.会有几个可以交心的朋友，而且他们很可能会成为一辈子的朋友
16.哭的时候被别人看见的话，会极力的掩饰
17.会很在乎或者很无所谓
18.会舍不得自己难过，却无法改变
19.会希望很骄傲地活着
20.会突然难过很久很久，又突然没心没肺地笑
2.怕黑，却习惯晚睡
3.隐藏真正的心事
4.喜欢有口袋的衣服，否则会不知道手放在哪里
5.习惯抱臂习惯冷战
6.会突然不知所措
7.喜欢窗户，喜欢角落，喜欢蜷缩
8.喜欢写字和阅读
9.莫名的孤单，无法抗拒的恐惧感
10.不爱说话或很爱说话
11.心事放在心里最温柔的地方，有一个自己的世界
12.自信的面对他人，因为怕别人看见自己的脆弱
13.神经非常敏感，总是多愁善感
14.心地善良，乐于帮助他人，同情弱小
15.会有几个可以交心的朋友，而且他们很可能会成为一辈子的朋友
16.哭的时候被别人看见的话，会极力的掩饰
17.会很在乎或者很无所谓
18.会舍不得自己难过，却无法改变
19.会希望很骄傲地活着
20.会突然难过很久很久，又突然没心没肺地笑
【有些话很轻、很淡、很疼】
1、如果很喜欢很喜欢一个人，那么，保持一个朋友的距离就够了，这样可以一辈子。千万不要奢望靠近，人一旦有了贪欲，就注定要失去
2、在无数个睡不着的晚上，我相信会有很多人，习惯性的开始闭上眼睛，安静的想念一个人，想念一张脸。而在他们心里，能够有这样一个人可以想念，或许就够了。
3、如果喜欢一个人就能和他在一起，那么这个世界就不会有悲剧存在。
4、年少的爱慕是可以寂静的，只是在以后的岁月里，我将永远走在少了你的风景里。
5、是否青涩的青春，遇见你只在路途，却不知你即将远走。又或许，太过于年少的爱情我们都走在成长的旅途中，盲目的寻找不到方向，跌跌撞撞的奔向远方。一场相遇已是缘尽一如烟光落下的薄凉，一场绚丽的开放已是开至尽头的荼靡。
6、很多事情不能自己掌控，即使再孤单再寂寞，仍要继续走下去。不许停也不能回头。
7.太过美好的东西从来都不适合经历，因为一旦经历便无法遗忘。
8.当思念太过积聚，深沉的有如负赘，会使一些遥远记忆中的说话浮到嘴边，让人忍不住想再听一遍。因为没人堪寄，所以只能借一双耳朵、、说给自己听。会使你泪流满面
9.有些人，等之不来，便只能离开；有些东西，要之不得，便只能放弃；有些过去，关于幸福或伤痛，只能埋于心底；有些冀望，关于现在或将来，只能选择遗忘。
10.生活以成败论英雄，所以必须做强者。要想成大器，就容不得胆小怕事。路再远，再荆棘满途，只要去走，勇敢的披荆斩棘，就一定能走到目的地。
11.虽然‘永远’只有简短的两个字，却无人能用文字说得完全，‘永远’到底有多远、它不会随着生命的终结而消散，真正的永远是藏在心里。尽管天会变，人会老，但那颗心不变。
12.很多时候我们不知道，却假装知道；很多事情我们知道，却假装不知道；很多时候我们不开心，却假装很开心。
【1】等待不苦，苦的是没有希望的等待。
【2】 看的开一点，伤的就会少一点。
【3】许多事情，总是在经历以后才会懂得，一如感情：错过了，遗憾了，才知道其实生活并不需要这么多无谓的执著。
【4】人生就像一列车，车上总有形形色色的人穿梭往来。你也可能会在车上遇到很多你以为有缘分的人，但是车也会有停下来的时候，总会有人从人生这列车上上下下，当你下去的时候你挥挥手，一转身你能记住的只有回家的路。
【5】不要欠朋友太多东西，因为你可能永远都没有机会还他。
【6】有的人你看了一辈子，却忽视了一辈子。有的人你看了一眼，却影响到你的一生。有的人热情的为你而快乐，却被你冷落。有的人让你拥有短暂的开心，却得到你思绪的连锁。有的人一厢情愿了N年，却被你拒绝了N年。
【7】一个人过了二十岁，就不会动不动就许下承诺，也不会再动不动就为了理想放弃这、放弃那，每个人应该懂得“带你去看世界”那只是一句话，也要学会，有时在生活面前你所谓的尊严一文不值。
【8】不要太看重梦想，吃饱饭才是一切的前提；不要太看重现实，他（她）肯陪着你，给你肩膀，已经是足够了。
【9】每当你无聊的时候，总是会给你短信的那个人，才是关心你的人。不要因为习惯就觉得那是应该的。你应该知道没有事又没有企图，还会给你电话的人不多了，如果聊很久的话你应该懂得为什么。
【10】每个人都会累，没人能为你承担所有伤悲，人总有一段时间要学会自己长大。
【11】要学会说“你的眼泪，与我无关”。
【12】如果手机里的老朋友好么越来越少，不要觉得孤单，那是必然的。
【13】付出没有得到回报那很正常，就像食堂里吃饭，给的钱一样，别人碗里的肉比你多一样的道理。
【14】有机会一个人去旅行一下，记得关掉手机。
2、在无数个睡不着的晚上，我相信会有很多人，习惯性的开始闭上眼睛，安静的想念一个人，想念一张脸。而在他们心里，能够有这样一个人可以想念，或许就够了。
3、如果喜欢一个人就能和他在一起，那么这个世界就不会有悲剧存在。
4、年少的爱慕是可以寂静的，只是在以后的岁月里，我将永远走在少了你的风景里。
5、是否青涩的青春，遇见你只在路途，却不知你即将远走。又或许，太过于年少的爱情我们都走在成长的旅途中，盲目的寻找不到方向，跌跌撞撞的奔向远方。一场相遇已是缘尽一如烟光落下的薄凉，一场绚丽的开放已是开至尽头的荼靡。
6、很多事情不能自己掌控，即使再孤单再寂寞，仍要继续走下去。不许停也不能回头。
7.太过美好的东西从来都不适合经历，因为一旦经历便无法遗忘。
8.当思念太过积聚，深沉的有如负赘，会使一些遥远记忆中的说话浮到嘴边，让人忍不住想再听一遍。因为没人堪寄，所以只能借一双耳朵、、说给自己听。会使你泪流满面
9.有些人，等之不来，便只能离开；有些东西，要之不得，便只能放弃；有些过去，关于幸福或伤痛，只能埋于心底；有些冀望，关于现在或将来，只能选择遗忘。
10.生活以成败论英雄，所以必须做强者。要想成大器，就容不得胆小怕事。路再远，再荆棘满途，只要去走，勇敢的披荆斩棘，就一定能走到目的地。
11.虽然‘永远’只有简短的两个字，却无人能用文字说得完全，‘永远’到底有多远、它不会随着生命的终结而消散，真正的永远是藏在心里。尽管天会变，人会老，但那颗心不变。
12.很多时候我们不知道，却假装知道；很多事情我们知道，却假装不知道；很多时候我们不开心，却假装很开心。
【1】等待不苦，苦的是没有希望的等待。
【2】 看的开一点，伤的就会少一点。
【3】许多事情，总是在经历以后才会懂得，一如感情：错过了，遗憾了，才知道其实生活并不需要这么多无谓的执著。
【4】人生就像一列车，车上总有形形色色的人穿梭往来。你也可能会在车上遇到很多你以为有缘分的人，但是车也会有停下来的时候，总会有人从人生这列车上上下下，当你下去的时候你挥挥手，一转身你能记住的只有回家的路。
【5】不要欠朋友太多东西，因为你可能永远都没有机会还他。
【6】有的人你看了一辈子，却忽视了一辈子。有的人你看了一眼，却影响到你的一生。有的人热情的为你而快乐，却被你冷落。有的人让你拥有短暂的开心，却得到你思绪的连锁。有的人一厢情愿了N年，却被你拒绝了N年。
【7】一个人过了二十岁，就不会动不动就许下承诺，也不会再动不动就为了理想放弃这、放弃那，每个人应该懂得“带你去看世界”那只是一句话，也要学会，有时在生活面前你所谓的尊严一文不值。
【8】不要太看重梦想，吃饱饭才是一切的前提；不要太看重现实，他（她）肯陪着你，给你肩膀，已经是足够了。
【9】每当你无聊的时候，总是会给你短信的那个人，才是关心你的人。不要因为习惯就觉得那是应该的。你应该知道没有事又没有企图，还会给你电话的人不多了，如果聊很久的话你应该懂得为什么。
【10】每个人都会累，没人能为你承担所有伤悲，人总有一段时间要学会自己长大。
【11】要学会说“你的眼泪，与我无关”。
【12】如果手机里的老朋友好么越来越少，不要觉得孤单，那是必然的。
【13】付出没有得到回报那很正常，就像食堂里吃饭，给的钱一样，别人碗里的肉比你多一样的道理。
【14】有机会一个人去旅行一下，记得关掉手机。
做人低调一点、 （不要滥交朋友，尤其是同性，因为…）
不要评价别人的容貌，因为他不靠你吃饭。
不要评价别人的德行，因为你不比他高尚。
不要评价别人的家庭，因为那和你无关。
不要评价别人的学问，因为世上最不缺的就是学问。
总之，不要评价任何人，哪怕是你的家人。
不要乱花钱，因为明天你就可能失业。
不要趾高气扬，因为明天你就可能失势。
不要太过张扬，因为要明白没有一个人会比你弱小。
不要吹嘘爱情，因为明天你就可能失恋。
不要委屈自己，因为明天你就可能死去。
总之，做人低调一点。 不要滥交朋友，尤其是同性，因为一举一动都会留下铬印，将来成为是非。
不要依靠异性，因为生活沉重，谁都想活得轻松。
不要伤害异性，因为报复迟早都会来，弄不好吃亏的是你自己。
人生在世，我们常常产生想解释点什么的想法。
然而，一旦解释起来，却发现任何人解释都是那样的苍白无力，甚至还会越抹越黑。
因此，做人不需要解释，便成为 智者的选择。
山不解释自己的高度，并不影响它的耸立云端；
海不解释自己的深度，并不影响它容纳百川；
地不解释自己的厚度，但没有谁能取代她作为承载万物的 地位…
1, 别低估任何人。
2、你没那么多观众，别那么累。
3、温和对人对事。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。
4、现在很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。
5、和对自己有恶意的人绝交。人有绝交，才有至交。
6、学会宽容伤害自己的人，因为他们很可怜，各人都有自己的难处，大家都不容易。
7、学会放弃，拽的越紧，痛苦的是自己。
8、低调，取舍间，必有得失。
9、不要试图给自己找任何借口，错误面前没人爱听那些借口。
10、慎言，独立，学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则。
11、付出并不一定有结果。坚持可能会导致失去更多。
12、过去的事情可以不忘记，但一定要放下。
13、活得轻松，任何事都作一个最好的打算和最坏的打算。
14、做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自扰。
15、不说谎话，因为总有被拆穿的一天。
16、别人光鲜的背后或者有着太多不为人知的痛苦。
17、尽量充实自己。不要停止学习。不管学习什么，语言，厨艺，各种技能。
18、注意自己的修养，你就是孩子的第一位老师。
19、孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的。
20、爱父母，因为他们给了你生命，同时也是爱你爱的最无私的人。
21、偶尔也要现实和虚伪一点，因为不那样做的话，很难混。
22、收敛自己的脾气，偶尔要刻意沉默，因为冲动会做下让自己无法挽回的事情。
23、无论什么时候，做什么事情，要思考。
24、永远不要给背叛过自己的朋友第二次的背叛的机会。
25、无论是谁，都有自己的限度。特别是信任。
26、懂得倾听别人的忠告。
27、别人说的记在脑袋里，而自己的，则放在心里。
28、尽量不要讲同事朋友的八卦。
29、信佛，信因果，在真正的因果面前，人的力量是微不足道的。
30、坦然接受生活给你的馈赠吧，不管是好的还是坏的。
31、真正了解无常的含义，当你痛苦时，你要想这痛苦不是永恒的，当你快乐时，你要想这快乐也不是永恒的。
32、要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，对人要真诚。
33、空虚无聊的时候就读书，但一定得有自己的生活目标和计划。
34、对人性的弱点有清醒的认识，但要相信真诚的爱情，对爱情永远怀有单纯的向往。
35、不要太过依赖除自己以外的人，因为只有自己不会抛弃自己。
36、永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。
37、多看书，看好书。
38、少吃点，吃好的。
39、古龙说过，爱笑的女孩子，运气不会太差。
40、多交朋友，交好的朋友。女人一定要有闺密。
41、请记得，好朋友的定义是：你混的好，她打心眼里为你开心；你混的不好，她由衷的为你着急。
42、要有梦想，即使遥远。
43、努力爱一个人。付出，不一定会有收获；不付出，却一定不会有收获，不要奢望出现奇迹。
44、承诺是一件美好的事情，但美好的东西往往不会变为现实。
45、每个人都有自己鲜明的主张和个性，不要识途去改变他人，同样，也不要被他人所改变。改了，就不是自己了。
46、没有十全十美的东西，没有十全十美的人，关键是清楚到底想要什么。得到想要的，肯定会失去另外一部分。如果什么都想要，只会什么都得不到。
47、这个世界最脆弱的是生命，身体健康，很重要。
48、老天爷对每个人都是公平的。
49、不要试图控制别人，不要要求别人理解你。
50、活在当下，别在怀念过去或者憧憬未来中浪费掉你现在的生活。
51、不要忘本，任何时候，任何事情。
52、要诚恳，要坦然，要慷慨，要宽容，要有平常心。
53、学会忘记, 善忘是一件好事。
54、要乐观，要积极，多笑，多照镜子。
55、相信他说的话，但不要当真。
56、凡事多长心眼。
57、不要自作聪明。
58、做自己的决定。然后准备好承担后果。从一开始就提醒自己，世上没有后悔药吃。
59、自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，因为你的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。
60、相信因果报应！相信轮回！
61、要学会忍耐与坚持！
62这个世界上没有真正的爱情……时间可以冲淡一切。
63、不要做刺猬 能不与人结仇就不与人结仇，谁也不跟谁一辈子，有些事情没必要记在心上。
64、有时要学会听取身边人的意见，更多时候这样才不会让自己受到伤害。
65、忘记过去才能有新的开始。
66、这个世界很不公平。
67、不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都有恶的一面。
68、爱情很美好，相信爱情。如果连爱情都不相信那人生岂不太苦了？
69、想得到一样一定会失去另一件东西。
70、痛苦让人成长，是你进步的一个机会，一个挑战。别害怕痛苦的事情，它有另一面积极的作用。
71、人就是孤独的，缓解它带来的痛苦的唯一方式就是平静的接受它。
72、没有经历过的，永远不能理解这些道理，但听听也是好的。
73、可以不美丽，可以不可爱，可以不温柔，但是一定要诚实和善良。
74、喜爱一切美好的事物，赞美并享受它们所带来的美好。
75、当困难来临时，用微笑去面对，用智慧去解决。
76、要勇于承认自己所犯的错误，并承担其带来的责任。
77、爱家人，爱朋友，爱伴侣，爱孩子，然而，要真正为自己活。
78、永远不要为已发生的和未发生的事忧虑。已经发生既成事实忧虑也于事无补，未发生的凭主观臆测，无法推断事情的走向，徒增烦恼而已。
79、不要老在别人面前倾诉你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
80、不要想着依靠别人，要有目标有追求，这与年龄无关。
81、做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自扰。
82、学会思考，头脑清晰，明白自己的渺小，切忌自我陶醉。炮打出头鸟，凡事不要强出头，因为并没有想象中的强！
83、每个人都是独立的个体，真的没有谁离开谁就活不下去！
84、不要太高估自己在集体中的力量，因为当你选择离开时，就会发现即使没有你，太阳照常升起！85、社会是有等级的，很多事不公平。别抱怨，因为没有用。
不要评价别人的德行，因为你不比他高尚。
不要评价别人的家庭，因为那和你无关。
不要评价别人的学问，因为世上最不缺的就是学问。
总之，不要评价任何人，哪怕是你的家人。
不要乱花钱，因为明天你就可能失业。
不要趾高气扬，因为明天你就可能失势。
不要太过张扬，因为要明白没有一个人会比你弱小。
不要吹嘘爱情，因为明天你就可能失恋。
不要委屈自己，因为明天你就可能死去。
总之，做人低调一点。 不要滥交朋友，尤其是同性，因为一举一动都会留下铬印，将来成为是非。
不要依靠异性，因为生活沉重，谁都想活得轻松。
不要伤害异性，因为报复迟早都会来，弄不好吃亏的是你自己。
人生在世，我们常常产生想解释点什么的想法。
然而，一旦解释起来，却发现任何人解释都是那样的苍白无力，甚至还会越抹越黑。
因此，做人不需要解释，便成为 智者的选择。
山不解释自己的高度，并不影响它的耸立云端；
海不解释自己的深度，并不影响它容纳百川；
地不解释自己的厚度，但没有谁能取代她作为承载万物的 地位…
1, 别低估任何人。
2、你没那么多观众，别那么累。
3、温和对人对事。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。
4、现在很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。
5、和对自己有恶意的人绝交。人有绝交，才有至交。
6、学会宽容伤害自己的人，因为他们很可怜，各人都有自己的难处，大家都不容易。
7、学会放弃，拽的越紧，痛苦的是自己。
8、低调，取舍间，必有得失。
9、不要试图给自己找任何借口，错误面前没人爱听那些借口。
10、慎言，独立，学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则。
11、付出并不一定有结果。坚持可能会导致失去更多。
12、过去的事情可以不忘记，但一定要放下。
13、活得轻松，任何事都作一个最好的打算和最坏的打算。
14、做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自扰。
15、不说谎话，因为总有被拆穿的一天。
16、别人光鲜的背后或者有着太多不为人知的痛苦。
17、尽量充实自己。不要停止学习。不管学习什么，语言，厨艺，各种技能。
18、注意自己的修养，你就是孩子的第一位老师。
19、孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的。
20、爱父母，因为他们给了你生命，同时也是爱你爱的最无私的人。
21、偶尔也要现实和虚伪一点，因为不那样做的话，很难混。
22、收敛自己的脾气，偶尔要刻意沉默，因为冲动会做下让自己无法挽回的事情。
23、无论什么时候，做什么事情，要思考。
24、永远不要给背叛过自己的朋友第二次的背叛的机会。
25、无论是谁，都有自己的限度。特别是信任。
26、懂得倾听别人的忠告。
27、别人说的记在脑袋里，而自己的，则放在心里。
28、尽量不要讲同事朋友的八卦。
29、信佛，信因果，在真正的因果面前，人的力量是微不足道的。
30、坦然接受生活给你的馈赠吧，不管是好的还是坏的。
31、真正了解无常的含义，当你痛苦时，你要想这痛苦不是永恒的，当你快乐时，你要想这快乐也不是永恒的。
32、要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，对人要真诚。
33、空虚无聊的时候就读书，但一定得有自己的生活目标和计划。
34、对人性的弱点有清醒的认识，但要相信真诚的爱情，对爱情永远怀有单纯的向往。
35、不要太过依赖除自己以外的人，因为只有自己不会抛弃自己。
36、永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。
37、多看书，看好书。
38、少吃点，吃好的。
39、古龙说过，爱笑的女孩子，运气不会太差。
40、多交朋友，交好的朋友。女人一定要有闺密。
41、请记得，好朋友的定义是：你混的好，她打心眼里为你开心；你混的不好，她由衷的为你着急。
42、要有梦想，即使遥远。
43、努力爱一个人。付出，不一定会有收获；不付出，却一定不会有收获，不要奢望出现奇迹。
44、承诺是一件美好的事情，但美好的东西往往不会变为现实。
45、每个人都有自己鲜明的主张和个性，不要识途去改变他人，同样，也不要被他人所改变。改了，就不是自己了。
46、没有十全十美的东西，没有十全十美的人，关键是清楚到底想要什么。得到想要的，肯定会失去另外一部分。如果什么都想要，只会什么都得不到。
47、这个世界最脆弱的是生命，身体健康，很重要。
48、老天爷对每个人都是公平的。
49、不要试图控制别人，不要要求别人理解你。
50、活在当下，别在怀念过去或者憧憬未来中浪费掉你现在的生活。
51、不要忘本，任何时候，任何事情。
52、要诚恳，要坦然，要慷慨，要宽容，要有平常心。
53、学会忘记, 善忘是一件好事。
54、要乐观，要积极，多笑，多照镜子。
55、相信他说的话，但不要当真。
56、凡事多长心眼。
57、不要自作聪明。
58、做自己的决定。然后准备好承担后果。从一开始就提醒自己，世上没有后悔药吃。
59、自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，因为你的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。
60、相信因果报应！相信轮回！
61、要学会忍耐与坚持！
62这个世界上没有真正的爱情……时间可以冲淡一切。
63、不要做刺猬 能不与人结仇就不与人结仇，谁也不跟谁一辈子，有些事情没必要记在心上。
64、有时要学会听取身边人的意见，更多时候这样才不会让自己受到伤害。
65、忘记过去才能有新的开始。
66、这个世界很不公平。
67、不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都有恶的一面。
68、爱情很美好，相信爱情。如果连爱情都不相信那人生岂不太苦了？
69、想得到一样一定会失去另一件东西。
70、痛苦让人成长，是你进步的一个机会，一个挑战。别害怕痛苦的事情，它有另一面积极的作用。
71、人就是孤独的，缓解它带来的痛苦的唯一方式就是平静的接受它。
72、没有经历过的，永远不能理解这些道理，但听听也是好的。
73、可以不美丽，可以不可爱，可以不温柔，但是一定要诚实和善良。
74、喜爱一切美好的事物，赞美并享受它们所带来的美好。
75、当困难来临时，用微笑去面对，用智慧去解决。
76、要勇于承认自己所犯的错误，并承担其带来的责任。
77、爱家人，爱朋友，爱伴侣，爱孩子，然而，要真正为自己活。
78、永远不要为已发生的和未发生的事忧虑。已经发生既成事实忧虑也于事无补，未发生的凭主观臆测，无法推断事情的走向，徒增烦恼而已。
79、不要老在别人面前倾诉你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
80、不要想着依靠别人，要有目标有追求，这与年龄无关。
81、做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自扰。
82、学会思考，头脑清晰，明白自己的渺小，切忌自我陶醉。炮打出头鸟，凡事不要强出头，因为并没有想象中的强！
83、每个人都是独立的个体，真的没有谁离开谁就活不下去！
84、不要太高估自己在集体中的力量，因为当你选择离开时，就会发现即使没有你，太阳照常升起！85、社会是有等级的，很多事不公平。别抱怨，因为没有用。
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